Napoleon Bonaparte once said “The extent of your consciousness is limited only by your ability to love and to embrace with your love the space around you and all it contains”`, another philosophy says “This is the true measure of love, when we believe that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved so before us, and that no one could ever love in the same way after us”. Correctional facilities across South Africa are places where loneliness is the order of the day. Inmates are desperately in need of people who can love them.
Some of these inmates got dumped by the ladies whom they were eating their crime-oriented money with. Their girlfriends wanted to continue with the lavish life styles whom an inmates taught them while they were still outside. On the other side, the inmate is stressing out about being incarcerated with no possibility of free movement. So they decide to look no further than where they live even though it’s risky.
Male Correctional facilities do have female officials who works within the Center. But most of them are working in offices, a bit far from where male inmates are being kept. That does not mean that there will be no contact between them and inmates. Women generally, they fall for men who are able to provide for them irrespective of where the money comes from.
It’s the same issue with female prison officials, once they spot an inmate who seems to have more money or who receives weekly visit. That inmate becomes a target for them, not knowing that they’re exposing themselves to a vulture. Who is desperate for someone to call him babe.
Some of the Prison Officials do these things intentionally out of lacking love from the their partners at home, so they find comfort from inmates who are already desperate for love. Prison officials do not clean, make tea, wash dishes or do any work that they are being employed for which includes doing administration. So they ask inmates to do all these things for them, only to find out that the more time they spend time together the more chances of falling for that inmate who works at her office.
Inmates are smart and neat, especially those who are doing long sentences. Plus they like to use expensive colognes whenever they’re going to they’re daily duties or visiting area. Since they have accepted their fate of being in prison, they do anything that will keep their bodies fit and strong. So they attending weight lifting classes which build their bodies to look like people whom we usually see on Television. Guess what! female prison officials just go crazy for them and decide to risky their jobs by dating inside prison.
Inmates have all the time to study the tricks of how to lure women to their world, which includes even the very same people who are supposed to be guarding them. Once these women are in their hands they make them even to forget that they’re prison officials. They start to do lot of crazy things which can even lead them to being transferred to another center or be fired.